Shopping. It’s a word that elicits mixed emotions.
Consumption and spending are necessary in our society. It boosts the economy and brings the groceries home. Yet when words like “Balenciaga” and “Fendi” are brought into the conversation, shopping takes on new meaning. There are always those (commonly referred to as the boyfriends) who believe in simplicity, minimalism, and having only what is needed. There can be occasional fun things scattered here and there (like the Nintendo Wii), but ultimately, money should go towards long-term investments and personal well-being and health. Is it really necessary to spend over $200 on shoes, or $2000 on a handbag? Yes and no.
A closer look at the other side of the argument reveals attributes of creativity, beauty, and variety. What woman doesn’t love being beautiful and confident in her clothes? (And quite frankly, these were the very clothes that caught your eye, honey). No, it’s not necessary to purchase a new purse or outfit every day just to follow the newest trends; yes, it is important to to indulge occasionally and wisely in what we love (in this case, shopping). Occasional, smart shopping and gradual accumulation of quality items that can last beyond a season and possibly even a decade can be worth it. Shopping can be an investment, if you go about it the right way. Purchasing a pair of quality shoes to match your pant suit for work as opposed to cheaper heels that will only last you a month is worth it. Purchasing a nice, classic summer handbag is worth it if you know you can wear that year after year. Sure, it may mean that you’ll have to store it away when winter comes, but if it’s a classic piece, it’ll be painless (and fun!) to retrieve it when the time comes.
You don’t always have to choose between being either the “frantic” shopaholic or the frugal minimalist! Just make sure you’re taking your other expenses into consideration and not shopping yourself into debt. Find the right balance and be conscious of what you’re adding into your collection.
HOW TO ENSURE THAT YOUR SHOPPING EXPERIENCE STAYS FABULOUS?
Know what you want. Like how people say to never do groceries when you are hungry, never go shopping when you just want to shop. Have something in mind. Either create a list or visualize what it is you want. Otherwise, you end up buying items that you never even wanted and that end up sitting in your closet untouched and unloved.
Set a budget. Yes, it’s been said over and over but it must be emphasized and repeated. If you’re looking for great boots, set a limit to how much you are willing to spend. If you only have $50 for boots, don’t buy the $400 pair. It’s possible to find fabulous boots AND forgo the sinking feeling in your stomach when you see the credit card bill.
Don’t fall for sweet temptations. Just because it is 50% off, that does not mean you should get it. Sales lure you in, and with discounts everywhere right now, the temptation is strong. Just resist. A great way to decide if you should get something is to ask yourself if you will still buy it at full price. If the answer is no, don’t get it. Loving an item for its price is short-lived.
Be picky. If you are a shopaholic, chances are you probably have more clothes than you know. Learn from your experiences. How long does it take before you cycle through the same item or outfit again? Do you really need more than one color of the same piece?
Shop with honest friends. Forget going shopping with friends that love everything you try on. Enablers never help your wallet or your closet. Instead go with friends whose opinion you really trust. They also will be able to dissuade you from getting that second tweed Chanel blazer, or those new Louboutins that you know are too high. Keep these friends close — they are invaluable to your happiness and your bank account.
Don’t over-browse online stores. Online sales can be tempting from time to time, especially with the convenience of not having to go to the mall but instead having items delivered right to your door. On top of that, it’s easier to find deep discounts online than it is to find in the stores. However, it’s also easy to fall into the trap of constantly looking for deals across the world of eCommerce. Next time you find a good deal online, remind yourself that the same sale (if not better) will come around again in the near future. Pace yourself.
With these suggestions in mind, we hope that you become a savvy shopper. By being smart and conscious about what you spend, shopping can be both rewarding and fun. If you have more ideas, we’d love to hear them.