So you have been together a while and the sex was great initially.  But then you got all comfortable with each other.  While the love has grown, the lust, passion, and excitement has settled. It’s not a bad thing, just a normal part of some relationships.  If you have been with your significant other for a long time and still have oodles of sexual energy, do share with us your secrets.  For the rest of you, here are some positive tips.

Scores of studies have been done proving that regular sexual intercourse with your partner will provide good health benefits.  From burning more calories (it sure beats stomach crunches every morning) to improving your immune system, regular sex can also create a lasting relationship. If you are feeling good, then the sex is good right?  Here are ways to put more sex into your love life (taking all the necessary precautions of course).

Dress up Sometimes you get so comfortable with each other that you forgot to be sexy.  Sorry to say, but those baggy pajamas with doggy prints are not that “come hither.”  Try to wear those special lace undies more often or those revealing silk shorts.  Visual stimulation will lead to other, ahem, stimulation.

Set up a time Whether it is date night or literally a slot of time that says “sex with my  honey,” putting time to do the deed may just be the trick.  Then you are free to spend the time in bed, have some chocolates and wine, and get down to business.

Create the mood Nothing shrinks a boner more than constantly nagging the poor guy about laundry, dishes, or what you want for your birthday.  Set the mood by lighting candles, having some wine, dimming the lights, being alluring and adorable.  For the guy, don’t push it too much.  Be subtle, touch her gently, soft kisses, and don’t forget the foreplay before you head for the homerun.  Pace yourself.  It’s not a race but special time for each other.

Be spontaneous Sometimes you just have to jump out of the slump and just jump your lover.  Act like that person is all you want.  Be playful, be dashing.  Do it in the kitchen.  Adding some new elements will spark the sexual drive.

So tear your eyes from this computer and tear into your lover.  Have fun, be happy, and truly cherish that person in you.

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